I was at the check out at Zupan’s, Portland’s treasured locally-owned grocery store when the young bagger asked If I wanted bags. I pointed to the bags I had brought in that were laying in front of her. “Oh gosh”, she said, embarrassed, "I'm at the end of my shift and I’m just fried”. I told her I used to work in a grocery store and understood. I added that at the time, we punched the prices into the cash register, shoppers paid in cash, and we calculated the change ourselves. The checker and bagger at the same time said, “no bar codes?” “Nope,” I answered, “Everything was manual.” Again they said in unison, “no barcodes?” as though it were unimaginable.
Read MoreAnchors aweigh
We all do it. Many times a day without even thinking about it. We see a problem and go straight to a solution. Sometimes the problem is obvious: I cut my finger and it’s bleeding. I need a bandage. Much of the time the problem isn’t that simple, and the solution we identify can become the problem.
Read MoreStressed out for good
One of my favorite clients recently worried about the stress on his team as they began to dive into some really cool and creative initiatives they were all excited about. How in the world were they going to get them done on top of an already full workload? I said it sounded like eustress. “What stress?" he asked. Eustress. The good kind.
Read MoreClean up that mess
Trust is a tricky thing. It can form instantly when we inexplicably click with someone we just met. It often builds slowly over time. It can be lost in a single moment never to be regained.
In my work, trust comes up more than any other word. We need trusty people in our lives. We want to be trusted. Our work is miserable when we don’t trust our organizations. And trust is the foundation of good relationships, which are the most important thing in our lives.
Read MoreGrowing some brain cells
Sunday Morning launched five years ago with this note:
Growing up, Sunday mornings were waffles, bacon, eggs scrambled in bacon grease, the Sunday Chronicle strewn all over the living room, Checkers (woof) and Patches (meow) in the middle of it all, and the 49ers and Giants games a constant. Sometimes this gave way to full-on pajama days.
Read MoreBecause of a hot dog
To those of you who reached out and wondered what happened to Sunday Morning, I appreciate the nudge and encouragement to get back to it.
So to start, here’s what happened.
Read MoreLove actually
It was novel at the time. Research began at Harvard in pre-WWII, depression-era 1938 to figure out not what makes people sick or go off the rails, but instead, what helps us thrive. The Harvard Study of Human Development amassed gobs of data across two centuries that uncovered the single most important contributor to our health and happiness: good relationships. More than exercise, diet, work, genes, success, money, or anything else.
Read MoreHoliday gift guide
It’s been the Sunday Morning word of the year and the main ingredient in most posts of curated wisdom. It doesn’t cost money. Giving and receiving it feels incredible. It helps resolve me-you conflict, breaks logjams in high stakes negotiations, and can, quite literally, save a life. When I forget to do it, I kick myself after, as it’s so obvious that it would have been better if I had.
It’s simple, but not easy, to just listen. To truly hear and understand the thoughts, feelings, beliefs, fears, and dreams of the human in front of us.
Read MoreGradually, then suddenly
There’s a passage in Ernest Hemingway’s novel The Sun Also Rises in which a character named Mike is asked how he went bankrupt. “Two ways,” he answers, “Gradually, then suddenly.”
That quote popped out of something I read a couple of months ago and it really made me think. And the more I thought, the more those three words explained so much. In such a simple and profound way.
Read MoreA funny thing happened on my way across the country
I felt like an excited kid anticipating my cross-country trip from Oakland, CA to my new home in Charlotte, NC. Route 66! Lake Havasu and Winslow, AZ, Albuquerque, Amarillo, Oklahoma City, then to Little Rock, Nashville, and the Smokies before landing in Charlotte. Changing landscapes, cityscapes, cultures, and National Parks to experience! It was a great adventure, and it left me hopeful that people with vastly different beliefs can have civil and open conversations about hard-to-talk-about topics.
Read MoreA great day =
Since the pandemic shifted many jobs to work-from-home (or anywhere) and the Great Resignation|Reshuffle|Renegotiation|Rethink further upended our work order, organizations have been madly surveying and throwing a lot of stuff at the wall to lure and keep the people they need to run their businesses.
There’s no question that our relationship to work has forever shifted, at least for those whose jobs don’t require a physical presence, and we’ll be wrestling and experimenting with this before we figure it out.
Read MoreHow values built this
It didn’t start with a pitch deck or a business plan. In 2009 while walking in his San Fernando neighborhood, Rick Nahmais noticed citrus trees bursting with fruit that would mostly end up in the trash. Food lines were growing as the Great Recession ravaged people’s lives and livelihoods. The light bulb went on. The following three weekends, he and a few volunteers harvested over 800 lbs of oranges and tangerines from a friend’s yard and took them to a local food pantry.
Read MoreLab class for life’s most useful skills
Groundhog Day again. Gallup released its State of the Workplace: 2022 report and one headline, Stressed, Sad, and Anxious: A Snapshot of the Workforce, summarizes what is a surprise to no one.
What is a bit different about it, though, is despite the myriad reasons for misery at work shouting at us from headlines daily, Gallup lays blame at the feet of managers.
Read MoreTo regret is human
No regrets! A common mantra that feels good, bold, and energizing. You can’t change the past, so why dwell on it? Not so fast, Dan Pink, who brought us Drive, tells us. In The Power of Regret, he uses his signature playbook of research, clever insight, and anecdotes to reframe regret as part of our hard-wiring, and a key driver of our learning and growth. “Regret,” he tells us, “makes us human. Regret makes us better.”
Read MoreTwitter, and the dining room table
When Jack Dorsey stepped back into Twitter in 2016, he inherited an annual loss of over $500 million on revenues of $2.2 billion, and a languishing stock price, when other platforms were booming. Dorsey reflected recently, “We got overly reactive to everything our peers were doing. We didn’t have a clear sense of what our purpose was, and that really hurt us a lot.”
To get a clear understanding of what business Twitter was really in, Dorsey and his team used a framework known as “jobs to be done.” They mined data to understand what users were “hiring them” to do, prioritized what was core for them, and aligned the organization to that core.
Read MoreOut of alignment
A common theme has emerged in the last many months for leaders I work with, sending them scrambling for direction. Climate events, racial violence and discrimination, #MeToo, and the head-shaking economic inequities made worse during the pandemic have combined to cause employees to demand action. Leaders are experiencing staff conflict, confusion, and anger, and are losing valued people. People are expressing dissatisfaction with internal processes that they feel perpetuate systemic discrimination and inequality and some leaders are being pressured to take public activist positions on issues. Sometimes the issues are outside the organization’s mission.
Read MoreThe Net Positive Manifesto
Over a decade ago Public Benefit Corporations and the B Corporation Certification process emerged, reframing the purpose of business beyond profits to operate for the benefit of society and the environment. Referred to as the “triple bottom line” or the 3 P's: People, Planet, and Profits, these structures hold businesses accountable for the impact of their operations. Organizations such as Patagonia that were founded with broad purpose and mission-driven start-ups eagerly got on board.
Read MoreTwo ears. One mouth.
The surest way to further cement someone to their convictions is to challenge them. Especially with those pesky, irrefutable facts. Yet we do this. We double down over and over again, and generate frustration for ourselves — dumbfounded wonderment at how someone could not see what we see so clearly — and strain relationships, or worse.
Read MoreThe beginning of the beginning (solid core, part 5, final)
We spent the last four posts taking a deep dive into how to inclusively unearth the solid core of an organization: vision + mission + values. It’s exhilarating to find just the right words that capture our true essence, and to share and celebrate it. Yet, it’s just the beginning of the beginning. Living our vision, mission, and values — what connects us to the cathedral we’re building together vs. individually laying bricks — is the real work.
Read MoreThe compass within (solid core, part 4)
In The Culture Code, Dan Coyle recalls in 1982 when J&J learned, to their utter horror, that seven people died in Chicago after ingesting cyanide-laced Tylenol. They faced a crisis they were utterly unprepared for, they had no playbook. But they had something much more powerful that drove one of their first decisions (ignoring advice from FDA and the FBI) to recall all 31 million pills on the market at a cost of $100 million.
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